Rich and Pretty
It’s said that, “if you are not able to smile at customers, do not open a store”. In the same way, this motto fits perfectly in the field of web cam modelling. If you are not the kind of a girl who likes to have a lovely look and a positive mind set, you cannot earn from web cam modelling the amounts of money, that we displayed at Rich and Pretty Studio.
We often tell girls to be themselves and to be natural. There is also a trend among web cam models, to limit themselves to a work style that does not take them out of their comfort zone. If you approach members using the same, simple words and phrases, not wanting to get more involved in the discussions with them – you won’t be happy in the end of the month. Of course, it seems easy, but this comfort zone does not always bring the desired income.
Here is a list of communication techniques and more specifically some phrases that will help you in your modelling career:
“How can I help you?”
This is a very elegant way to ask than “what you want me to do for you” or promise all sorts of things until you get into a private chat with that person. You will want to start a conversation in this way and as a result it will be relaxed and it will help you find out as many details as possible about the member’s intentions.
You can also use expressions like: “What do you hope to find in me? What can I do to help you?”
“Do you want to tell me something about yourself?”
We have emphasised so many times, how much the discussion between a member and a model matters. He is there for a reason, he is looking for an escape, you are there to listen to him and make him feel comfortable talking to you. But until you get to that pleasant conversation, just like in real life, there is shyness to begin with. Break the ice by making him talk about it. It seems that this method makes us relax and talk more easily.
You can use questions like: “Is it ok, if I ask you something about yourself?
Listen, understand and repeat
Listen to him, so you will understand what he wants, what he is looking for to find in you. Some will tell you directly, without too many questions, but not every time the members tell you directly as they want you to be smart and deduce certain things from the context of the discussions you have. It is useful for you to repeat the last words that the member says to you – because that way he feels safe as he needs to be understood.
“I can’t, I don’t want to.” -Why?
In fact, it is preferable not to limit yourself to these lines, at least in this simple version of conversation. It sounds dry and you feel the need to complete it. Why would you want that …, I don’t think I can do that, but … why do you think … there are friendlier approaches.
The same thing happens and in the chapter I don’t know if … He will tell you and propose all kinds of things to you, and you will have to refuse him in an elegant way. You can say I don’t know if … and explain what and how. You can even show that you care, following a gift and the related explanation: I understand you perfectly, but what do you think if today …?
“Can you tell me when we going to see each other again?”
You can’t let him leave the private chat without discussing the possibility of a new private chat in the near future. It’s a nice way to say goodbye, and the member is left with the impression that you enjoyed spending time with him and will definitely look for you again.
Involvement
Tell him to do something together and he will feel “important” to you. Involve scenarios, challenge him to reveal his most hidden fantasies, tell him to imagine that he is with you in various places. Create a moment only by using your both imaginations.
You can use questions such as: “How do you feel? Can you imagine what it would be like if?”